Entering a New World: Leaving Hawai’i
Hawai’i vs. The Mainland ~ A comparison of the Hawaiian Islands to the east coast of the U.S. mainlandArchive for January, 2009
It’s Cold Outside
I’ve recently been talking to my friends and family in Hawai’i and they were telling me that it’s cold outside! What’s cold to them? 64 degrees. Pfft. I’d run out to the beach in a bikini in that kind of weather. My mom reassures me that everyone is in sweats and sweaters, all bundled up.
I remember when that was cold to me too. Ever since I moved to New Jersey, when I’d go home on winter break, I would never feel cold, at night, camping right on the beach, I never needed to cover up.
But you’d be surprised how well you adapt to tropical weather. If I moved back home it would take less than a year for 60 degrees to be cold again.

I’m not too sure how mainland weather adaptation works, though. I guess I’m used to the extreme cold and extreme heat. I don’t love it and just go on living like everyone else. Wearing gloves, hats and heavy winter coats. Knowing that it’s freezing outside. I wish it snowed more in New Jersey. The past three winters I’ve spent here have been mild at best. It’s been cold enough to snow, but there were no clouds in the sky. When it snows, the next day it’s usually 40 degrees outside.
Growing up in Hawai’i, on the island of O’ahu where the weather ranges from the low to mid 60s to the mid to high 80s doesn’t prepare you for…well anything. For a long time, I couldn’t even fathom how a place that can get so cold, cold enough to snow, can get so hot in the summer, hot enough to require air conditioning or death. It definitely makes me appreciate Hawai’i and how lucky I was to grow up in such a perfect place.
Mele Kalikimaka (Merry Christmas in Hawaiian)

As I said in an earlier post, I didn’t get to spend Christmas at home with my family in Hawai’i. Every year we celebrate with a huge family and friends Christmas Eve party—a tradition we’ve been holding at my home in Hawai’i for longer than I’ve been alive.
In Hawai’i the Hawaiian language is emphasized pretty heavily. If you’re in the public school system, a Hawaiian language teacher (also known as a Kupuna) teaches the language until sixth grade.
If you are in Hawai’i for Christmas, you’ll hear Mele Kalikimaka (meh lay kah lee kee ma kah) which means Merry Christmas in Hawaiian. Since it never gets cold in Hawai’i (to you mainlanders, at least) we celebrate by surfing and enjoying the sun as if that were our Christmas present. The Christmas songs are different (along with the traditional) but we have many Hawaiian bands that sing traditional music with a Hawaiian spin. Like the twleve days of Christmas. I’ve heard the mainland parody of this and I have to say, it’s not as good!
For a sample of the twelve HAWAIIAN days of Christmas here is the first line (tutu means grandma in Hawaiian)
On da first day of Christmas my tutu gave to me, one minah bird in one papaya tree…) then it goes on the numbah two day of Christmas… and so on and so forth with our local spin.
I missed home a lot this year, especially the nice weather and my dog. But there is always next year and I can’t complain since I had a pretty good mainland Chirstmas too.
A Mainland Christmas
So I celebrated my first Christmas and New Year’s in New Jersey. It was a lot better than I could have expected. I spent it with my New Jersey native boyfriend and his family (which feel a lot like my extended mainland family) and they welcomed me with open mainland arms, his mom with a strong embrace and knowing smile that I missed my family and the traditions that came along with this time of the year.

My parents sent me more presents than usual because I was spending it without them and they felt bad and missed me. So I had many if not more presents to open than my boyfriend. It was nice, a first for me.
Christmas in the mainland is different because of the music, accents and other minor details, but overall the main things are the same. Family and close friends come over to be together, everyone is happy and grateful to have each other at least once a year. They all laugh, tease, converse and have a good time, much like anywhere else in the world. The feeling in the air is the same, warm energy almost glowing with coziness.
I expected a white Christmas but I didn’t get one. It did snow a little so far this winter but not on the actual day, so I found myself still dreaming of a white Christmas.

























